ALPHA
HIGH-ACHIEVING
POWERFUL
ENTREPRENEURIAL
BOSS
LEADER…WOMAN
You are everything - decision maker, family manager, organizer, master orchestrator, keep-it-all-together-er.
In your work, you feel powerful. You feel purposeful. You are a provider.
You know that you can be, do, and have it all…
Except when it comes to your romantic life, you aren’t so sure.
That registers as another thing on the to-do list.
It’s no longer about lust, desire, or expression.
It’s more about showing up every now and then for your “poor husband”.
You have a hard time with transitions.
It’s easier to go from boss mode to mom mode because they resemble each other.
Keep little people fed, alive, and on schedule…that’s necessary, and it’s much easier to fall into that space over relaxed, comfortable, embodied, sensuous, open, and surrendered.
That transition has become so challenging over the years.
It’s taking a toll not only on your partnership but on your relationship with yourself as well.
You know there’s more to you than boss, wife, or mom - but it feels almost impossible to explore because your days are already so FULL.
Who are you outside of the roles you get so much validation for?
Why can’t your partner just accept that you are so busy you don’t have time for yourself, much less for him?
You tell yourself that it’s possibly just a phase, but…it’s been a really long time.
It all feels like so much pressure.
With all that you are doing day in and day out, to also feel like your husband needs from you too and the thought of what is required to put you in the space to receive him or give to him is literally exhausting.
Much easier to just go to bed so you can wake up and get back to work the next morning…a place where your efforts are rewarded by an increase in the bottom line.
But you also miss the flirty, sexy, spontaneous, fun, light-hearted side of you too.
How do you get back in touch with her?
She feels so far away sometimes.
Interacting with her feels so awkward, so out of control, so wild, and emotional.
Embracing her and being her with or for your husband feels so incredibly foreign.
So how do you HAVE IT ALL? Because you know you can. So how? What’s the process?
It’s MUCH bigger than a tactic, a new lingerie set, or going to some sexy party
Over time, you have evolved as a woman.
The sexy, sensual, embodied, playful, expressive, in-flow woman you are now post creating and running a business, post becoming a mom (or caregiver), post becoming the (possible) breadwinner…you are literally not the same as you were before all of that.
So, who is she?
That’s a big question only you can answer and only if you are willing to do whatever it takes to break your walls down.
That means feeling feelings you’ve been unwilling to feel all the way through, it means moving your body in unique ways, valuing time to yourself, letting go of some rigid habits/patterns, showing up for pleasure, intimacy, and connection…and being held accountable to it all.
It does not mean forcing yourself to do things you don’t actually want to do.
It does not mean overriding your body’s responses or hesitations, it means taking responsibility for yourself and the place you are in and CHOOSING to do something about it.
I’m here to help you because you don’t have to do it alone.
When you look back at the life you have built, ask yourself what will you be the proudest of.
In the end, you will not have the business or the material things in the same way you have them now.
In the end, you will consider a life lived fully and successfully by the relationships you have built.
Your world, business, and life will not fall apart should you embrace this part of your journey.
I will hold you through it. I will hold you accountable in your messiness, in your discomfort, in your unfolding, in your next evolution so you can become the woman you know you are deep down inside…the woman who truly has it all.
A woman with a successful business, a great (and present) relationship with her children (or future children), an intimate and exploratory relationship with her partner and lover, and most importantly - a deeply connected relationship with herself, her pleasure, her expression, and all the facets of who she is inside.
Become all of who you know you can be in life, in love, and in your sexuality by joining me + 3 other women for an intimate group coaching experience below.
Intimate Group Coaching with Alexa
Next round begins early April 2023
What's Included:
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3 month Group Coaching Container
- 3 weeks of Group Calls and 1 week of 1:1 Calls each month
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Private Telegram thread for 24/7 communication and support
- Access to our signature program Sex & Love Academy (this you can do at your own pace individually or with your partner)
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Priceless value being able to learn from others
Replays will be available for playback. (*Will determine call time as a group.)
Divera van der Elst
"Working with Alexa changed my life. And no, I’m not just saying that.Alexa inspired me to go for what’s good for me. Alexa inspired me to not settle for anything less but an EPIC sex life. Alexa guided me to re-write my sex story.
When things were rough, she was there, giving the support I needed. (Not always the support I WANTED, but hey, what did I know 😉) When things were amazing, she was there cheering me on.
Funny how someone I have never met in person made such an impact in my life.
Thank you, Alexa, for your a-ma-zing work."
Lauralea Matterson
"Alexa changes your life, the way you look at it, the words you use, and the permission you give yourself. Reframing your perceptions. Alexa an amazing coach."
Want to see if Intimate Group Coaching is right for you?
Schedule a quick call with me.
